Thanks for adding to what i posted. I like doing things for others as well, but it at less for me with a few in my family turneds into "lets run Laurel right into the ground with getting her to live up to our standerds", by the way, I was never able to see them live up to it either, but I would pay later on for not being able to do so either!
I found today after getting a new puppy for my birthday from my hubby, that he showwed me a massage from his M. say that she hopes we never get another hoser for she would ever enter our house ever again. And I said, good! Lets go get another one and double up that promise!
....yep...If found myself....me! ....saying that! He laughed at me too...for that isnt like me at all! years ago, If I seen that it would have caused me pain for this person always take digs at me about everything, making herself feel better at others exspence! If really didnt bother me like it use too. that is groth for me!
Learning to let only what G-d wants into my heart helps! For words, deeds, actions of others at times are ment to see you fall, and rejoice over seeing it happen. Sick, really...but true!